Correct Small Behaviors for Big Results
Correct Small Behaviors for Big Results
“Small corrections are less painful and divisive than larger course corrections.”
– Allan F. Packer
When we think about disciplining our kids, we often envision big, painful confrontations—shouting matches, slammed doors, and endless frustration. 
But it doesn’t have to be that way. In fact, discipline is far more effective when applied in small, consistent doses rather than massive, emotionally charged interventions.
If you think life stinks when your kid is a jerk, wait until you add full-scale disciplinary battles into the mix. That’s when the real fun begins—sarcasm intended. The truth is, large disciplinary actions often bring out the worst in our kids, and in us. No one wins in a power struggle, and relationships suffer in the process.
The smarter alternative? Frequent, small course corrections.
The Power of Small Adjustments
In a well-run Karate class, instructors are constantly making small corrections. They don’t wait until a student has developed terrible habits before stepping in. Instead, they make quick, minor adjustments in posture, form, and focus. This prevents bad habits from forming and eliminates the need for major overhauls later.
Think about how ships navigate. They don’t wait until they’re miles off course before adjusting. The helmsman makes continuous, minor corrections to ensure they stay on track. Parenting should work the same way.
Real-World Application: Addressing Tardiness
Let’s say your child struggles with punctuality. They’re consistently late for school, practice, and other obligations
. This is a habit that can lead to serious consequences in adulthood, from job loss to financial instability. But kids don’t see the long-term implications of their actions—they just know they don’t like being nagged.
Instead of reacting with frustration and turning tardiness into a battleground, apply small, consistent corrections. Encourage them to start getting ready earlier, offer friendly reminders, and reinforce positive behavior with praise or small rewards. Over time, they’ll begin to see the benefits of their new habits, such as having more free time or avoiding unnecessary stress.
Long-Term Strategy, Long-Term Success
Frequent, small corrections lead to lasting change. Just as a Karate instructor keeps students on track with regular guidance, you can guide your child toward better behavior without major fights. The key is consistency and a focus on long-term growth.
By keeping corrections small and consistent, you avoid the need for exhausting, emotionally charged battles. And in the process, you help your child develop habits that will serve them well for a lifetime.
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